How to interact and what to expect in session
First preference will always be given to those who email or fill out the contact form.
A polite email containing all the details of your desired session will be sufficient, but do take the time to tell Sorcha something about yourself! It's important that she get to know you so you can build a good relationship and enjoy your time together. Do not be concerned if your English is not perfect, Sorcha will make every effort to accommodate you. Your ethnicity, religion, age, gender, body type, and appearance are not of any consequence, as Sorcha will see and value pets from any walk of life - she enjoys unique people, and unique tastes. Your kinks will not be judged; time with the Governess is a safe space for you, and unless you would like it to be so, nothing will be shared outside of sessions.
Any contact will be required to include the following:
Your real name
Current contact details
Your preferred date and time
Your session length and services desired
Your level of experience with the services requested
Whether you require a dungeon booking (72hrs notice required)
Any medical issues or physical limitations
The Governess will then discuss the details of your appointment with you in slightly greater depth, to make sure she understands all aspects of your session.
Please do not take this as an excuse to play SMS ping pong, to attempt to draw her into a D/s back and forth, or to get too friendly. Sorcha is not your friend - she's not even your Governess until you have been accepted as a pet, and these are signs you would be a bad pet. Do not go into unnecessary detail, do not be vulgar, do not expect constant messaging and attention.
When the Governess arrives at your residence, or you arrive at hers, you will hand her the tribute in a plain envelope. There will be a discussion on protocols for if you feel that you can no longer handle the intensity of the session; this is to ensure the Governess can stop play immediately if you are uncomfortable or if she thinks that you are showing signs of being pushed too far, Sorcha is very in tune with how her pets are feeling during a session. You will also discuss the particulars of the scene you are going to enact in further depth to your previous contact - this will really flesh out the scene and ensure that Sorcha can do her best to provide you with a thrilling experience. You will then be instructed to shower, and if your session includes anal play of any kind, you will need to use an enema; purchase the necessary tools before your appointment.
During your session, remember that you can stop at any time, or ask for the Governess to slow down/speed up. The submissive always has ultimate control, even when the Dominant tells them what to do - you have the power to make everything stop. The signals are not just verbal, but can be you raising a foot in the air, or dropping an object from your hand; the Governess will also check in with you by using touch signals. Sorcha always operates within the bounds of SSC - if you're new to the scene, more information can be found here. Every effort will be made to ensure no boundaries are unnecessarily pushed.
The Governess has several hard limits. These include:
Switch or pro-sub roles
Needle play and piercing
Public humiliation where the audience has not consented
In addition to this, you will not be permitted to touch her without her express consent. No excuses will be tolerated; unless you have asked and she has given permission, you are not to touch the Governess in any way. Breaking this rule can result in you being permanently unable to see her again, and it will likely mean that many other Dommes in the region will also bar you from becoming their pets.
Aftercare will be given post-session, unless you expressly say that you don't need it. The Governess is harsh, but not dispassionate, and she is trained in the correct ways to provide a submissive with aftercare - she herself has been in submissive roles and knows how you are likely feeling. A personal aftercare guide can be found here. She will also have a courtesy follow up a few days later with you.
After the session ends, you may want to thank Sorcha via message, this is encouraged and greatly appreciated. Any communication further to this is inappropriate, except to discuss and book further sessions, unless Sorcha initiates it. The Governess is not your full time Mistress, as she does not have the time to maintain a full on lifestyle submissive at this time - you will not treat her like a casual friend to chat to. Prying into her personal life is equally inappropriate.
As a part of the booking, Sorcha will ask your permission to write up an entry in her Session Diary. It will naturally be completely purged of identifying details, and will simply be an account of the fun she had being your Governess. You are invited to contribute also! The Governess really loves having her pets submit entries so that she can see how you felt about a session, and so that other submissives can see what kind of experience she provides. It also helps her to reflect on how she could have done better - you are contributing to her improvement, and helping fellow subs make informed decisions.
You are also invited to have snaps of your session put in the Sessions Gallery! Once again, permission will be sought before any pictures are taken, and again to ask if you wish to have them posted. Identifying details will be blurred out - the Governess always protects her pets.